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0 | NTA,
>I recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom
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you inherited the money, not him. he shouldn't tell you what you should do with the money that was given (gifted, in an Unfortunate Event that is)to you.
>My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my " inheritance pocket"
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the mother of your husband is TA for making this comment, she should know better, not just that that but the fact that your husband enables this is almost disgusting.
>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic
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this might be rude, but the fact ***he*** is yelling at you, telling you what to do with money, and enabling his mother to make comment; "inheritance pocket". makes me think, that he is out on that money and that he's the one that's pathetic here. | 100ogg4 | -Goyangi- | 1,672,595,357 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "-Goyangi-", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_tvod02lu", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA,\n\n>I recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom\n\nyou inherited the money, not him. he shouldn't tell you what you should do with the money that was given (gifted, in an Unfortunate Event that is)to you. \n\n>My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my \" inheritance pocket\" \n\nthe mother of your husband is TA for making this comment, she should know better, not just that that but the fact that your husband enables this is almost disgusting. \n\n>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic \n\nthis might be rude, but the fact ***he*** is yelling at you, telling you what to do with money, and enabling his mother to make comment; \"inheritance pocket\". makes me think, that he is out on that money and that he's the one that's pathetic here.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA,</p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>I recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom</p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>you inherited the money, not him. he shouldn't tell you what you should do with the money that was given (gifted, in an Unfortunate Event that is)to you. </p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>My husband's mom joked about paying for dinner out of my " inheritance pocket" </p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>the mother of your husband is TA for making this comment, she should know better, not just that that but the fact that your husband enables this is almost disgusting. </p>\n\n<blockquote>\n<p>He got back at 3 a.m yeling at me saying I was pathetic </p>\n</blockquote>\n\n<p>this might be rude, but the fact <strong><em>he</em></strong> is yelling at you, telling you what to do with money, and enabling his mother to make comment; "inheritance pocket". makes me think, that he is out on that money and that he's the one that's pathetic here.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672595357.0, "created_utc": 1672595357.0, "depth": 0, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2iut6g", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2iut6g", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t3_100ogg4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2iut6g/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [{"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "wannabealibrarian", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_tuhwia3q", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "I'd be thinking in my head to my hubby,\"When your mum dies and leaves you your inheritance, I'm sure you won't mind me getting all excited about the lucky pay day, when I joyfully tell you what to spend it on(which would be ME). \n\nI'm so sorry for your painful loss. I hope there are redeemable qualities in your husband, and they would have to be so special, as he and your in laws sounds like disgusting people. Only you know if he's worth it. I would think seriously about counseling either together, separately or both.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>I'd be thinking in my head to my hubby,"When your mum dies and leaves you your inheritance, I'm sure you won't mind me getting all excited about the lucky pay day, when I joyfully tell you what to spend it on(which would be ME). </p>\n\n<p>I'm so sorry for your painful loss. I hope there are redeemable qualities in your husband, and they would have to be so special, as he and your in laws sounds like disgusting people. Only you know if he's worth it. I would think seriously about counseling either together, separately or both.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672602019.0, "created_utc": 1672602019.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jbtrx", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jbtrx", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2iut6g", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jbtrx/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [{"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "twistedspin", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_121msb", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Yeah, he knows his mom is just going to leave debt.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Yeah, he knows his mom is just going to leave debt.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672609856.0, "created_utc": 1672609856.0, "depth": 2, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jvv5p", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jvv5p", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2jbtrx", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jvv5p/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 5, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 5, "user_reports": []}], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 10, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 10, "user_reports": []}, {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "whiterose3hearts", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_etg1yg58", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA\n\nIt's your money, not your husband's. It is yours to do with as you wish.\nNo one is entitled to your inheritance and it certainly does not make you an ATM.\nFirst it will be just pay for this and just pay for that. Oh just pay for this celebratory dinner and oh pay for so and so's birthday party. Oh since you have so much money you should pay for our trip. And the list goes on.\nYour husband is ... I don't have words.\n\nStand your ground. You don't owe anyone anything.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA</p>\n\n<p>It's your money, not your husband's. It is yours to do with as you wish.\nNo one is entitled to your inheritance and it certainly does not make you an ATM.\nFirst it will be just pay for this and just pay for that. Oh just pay for this celebratory dinner and oh pay for so and so's birthday party. Oh since you have so much money you should pay for our trip. And the list goes on.\nYour husband is ... I don't have words.</p>\n\n<p>Stand your ground. You don't owe anyone anything.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672598121.0, "created_utc": 1672598121.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 1672608267.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2j1q72", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2j1q72", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2iut6g", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2j1q72/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 7, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 7, "user_reports": []}], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 195, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 195, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_agree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I... | 1 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
1 | Similar situation although it’s been 10 years now. Every time how lucky I am comes up I tell them I’d give it all back and more have my parent back. | 100ogg4 | 1stviplette | 1,672,601,804 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "1stviplette", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_38cgm0ol", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Similar situation although it\u2019s been 10 years now. Every time how lucky I am comes up I tell them I\u2019d give it all back and more have my parent back.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Similar situation although it\u2019s been 10 years now. Every time how lucky I am comes up I tell them I\u2019d give it all back and more have my parent back.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672601804.0, "created_utc": 1672601804.0, "depth": 2, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jba4u", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jba4u", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2j80nk", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jba4u/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [{"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "atrifone", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [2]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_197ow7pe", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "My father committed suicide when I was 9 and I got a decent trust find. People still tell me how lucky I am to have so little debt from school (doctorate). I tell them how lucky they are to have two living parents.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>My father committed suicide when I was 9 and I got a decent trust find. People still tell me how lucky I am to have so little debt from school (doctorate). I tell them how lucky they are to have two living parents.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672647158.0, "created_utc": 1672647158.0, "depth": 3, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2ly4a5", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2ly4a5", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2jba4u", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2ly4a5/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 15, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 15, "user_reports": []}], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 181, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 181, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I... | 3 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
2 | Not to mention the comment her husband made about “not being to help her mom while she was sick” Which means OP had no help from them but now they want her inheritance. Sick. NTA. | 100ogg4 | 2ndhouseonthestreet | 1,672,600,963 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "2ndhouseonthestreet", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_bk54mqus", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Not to mention the comment her husband made about \u201cnot being to help her mom while she was sick\u201d Which means OP had no help from them but now they want her inheritance. Sick. NTA.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Not to mention the comment her husband made about \u201cnot being to help her mom while she was sick\u201d Which means OP had no help from them but now they want her inheritance. Sick. NTA.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672600963.0, "created_utc": 1672600963.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2j958s", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2j958s", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2itioo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2j958s/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 176, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 176, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I... | 2 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
3 | This is really important— my understanding is you need up be VERY careful not to mix inheritance with any marital assets. | 100ogg4 | AL92212 | 1,672,610,678 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AL92212", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_cm6a2zr4", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "This is really important\u2014 my understanding is you need up be VERY careful not to mix inheritance with any marital assets.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>This is really important\u2014 my understanding is you need up be VERY careful not to mix inheritance with any marital assets.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672610678.0, "created_utc": 1672610678.0, "depth": 3, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jxvss", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jxvss", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2j9wnp", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jxvss/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 7, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 7, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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4 | Agree, NTA.
OP is very smart to have a separate account. Inheritances are not included in assets a spouse can claim. | 100ogg4 | According2What | 1,672,599,932 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "According2What", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_685bi0kg", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Agree, NTA. \n\nOP is very smart to have a separate account. Inheritances are not included in assets a spouse can claim.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Agree, NTA. </p>\n\n<p>OP is very smart to have a separate account. Inheritances are not included in assets a spouse can claim.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672599932.0, "created_utc": 1672599932.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2j6gkm", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2j6gkm", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2itioo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2j6gkm/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [{"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Big_Solution_1065", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": "#3b2921", "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": "0f8d1b4a-f8a7-11e8-920b-0e93c922efde", "author_flair_text": "Partassipant [1]", "author_flair_text_color": "light", "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_uqk5izyr", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Husband sounds like a total mooch, which isn\u2019t surprising given his family. NTA and protect your inheritance at all costs. Also I am very sorry for your loss.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Husband sounds like a total mooch, which isn\u2019t surprising given his family. NTA and protect your inheritance at all costs. Also I am very sorry for your loss.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672601609.0, "created_utc": 1672601609.0, "depth": 2, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jash9", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jash9", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2j6gkm", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jash9/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 162, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 162, "user_reports": []}], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 466, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 466, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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5 | When my FIL passed away, my parents reaction was 'how can we help?' They were there for the funeral, helping to clear the house, strip wall paper. Not 'lets go for a slap up meal and spend this cash!!' Sound like OP has got hooked up with the wrong kind of family.
Personally I'd use the inheritance for a chance of a life without them. NTA. | 100ogg4 | Active-Pen-412 | 1,672,596,276 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "Active-Pen-412", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_oczw7cg6", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "When my FIL passed away, my parents reaction was 'how can we help?' They were there for the funeral, helping to clear the house, strip wall paper. Not 'lets go for a slap up meal and spend this cash!!' Sound like OP has got hooked up with the wrong kind of family. \nPersonally I'd use the inheritance for a chance of a life without them. NTA.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>When my FIL passed away, my parents reaction was 'how can we help?' They were there for the funeral, helping to clear the house, strip wall paper. Not 'lets go for a slap up meal and spend this cash!!' Sound like OP has got hooked up with the wrong kind of family. \nPersonally I'd use the inheritance for a chance of a life without them. NTA.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672596276.0, "created_utc": 1672596276.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2ix0ql", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2ix0ql", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2iuxpy", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2ix0ql/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 17, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 17, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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6 | Pretty much. “They relied on my to pay for everything” - the audacity of the husband to actually use this statement to DEFEND his family. Yes, they relied on her - without advance notice. Sounds like that needs to be placed in the file titled “their problem”.
NTA. | 100ogg4 | AffectionateGolf6032 | 1,672,604,960 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateGolf6032", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_uuav32kc", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Pretty much. \u201cThey relied on my to pay for everything\u201d - the audacity of the husband to actually use this statement to DEFEND his family. Yes, they relied on her - without advance notice. Sounds like that needs to be placed in the file titled \u201ctheir problem\u201d.\n\nNTA.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Pretty much. \u201cThey relied on my to pay for everything\u201d - the audacity of the husband to actually use this statement to DEFEND his family. Yes, they relied on her - without advance notice. Sounds like that needs to be placed in the file titled \u201ctheir problem\u201d.</p>\n\n<p>NTA.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672604960.0, "created_utc": 1672604960.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jjgul", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jjgul", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2itioo", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jjgul/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 9, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 9, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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7 | There is only one scenario where on has “the right” to expect another to pay: the other person says “it’s on me” beforehand. | 100ogg4 | AffectionateGolf6032 | 1,672,605,108 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AffectionateGolf6032", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_uuav32kc", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "There is only one scenario where on has \u201cthe right\u201d to expect another to pay: the other person says \u201cit\u2019s on me\u201d beforehand.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>There is only one scenario where on has \u201cthe right\u201d to expect another to pay: the other person says \u201cit\u2019s on me\u201d beforehand.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672605108.0, "created_utc": 1672605108.0, "depth": 1, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2jjurw", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2jjurw", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2it6b0", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2jjurw/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 8, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 8, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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10 | NTA. Figure out some clear boundaries, probably with the help of a lawyer. | 100ogg4 | AlarmingAttention151 | 1,672,596,354 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AlarmingAttention151", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_950q3uav", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "NTA. Figure out some clear boundaries, probably with the help of a lawyer.", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>NTA. Figure out some clear boundaries, probably with the help of a lawyer.</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672596354.0, "created_utc": 1672596354.0, "depth": 0, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2ix7jk", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2ix7jk", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t3_100ogg4", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2ix7jk/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 18, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 18, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "agree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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"content": "AITA for silently getting up and walking out of the restaurant during NYE dinner after I was told to pay for everyone at the table (my inlaws)?\n\nI f32 recently inherited a good amount of money from my mom. I keep the money in a seperate account as I still haven't decided what to do with it and I... | 1 | No persona (persona_history_length=0) |
11 | Same, I'm always rolling my eyes whenever people suggest divorce on these subs but in this case, what OP has said about her husband's comments and actions makes me think he doesn't actually care about OP or respects her as much.
I will be cautious about this relationship tbh | 100ogg4 | AllthisSandInMyCrack | 1,672,612,763 | {"_fetched": true, "all_awardings": [], "approved_at_utc": null, "approved_by": null, "archived": true, "associated_award": null, "author": "AllthisSandInMyCrack", "author_cakeday": null, "author_flair_background_color": null, "author_flair_css_class": null, "author_flair_richtext": [], "author_flair_template_id": null, "author_flair_text": null, "author_flair_text_color": null, "author_flair_type": "text", "author_fullname": "t2_ja7jwov4", "author_is_blocked": false, "author_patreon_flair": false, "author_premium": false, "awarders": [], "banned_at_utc": null, "banned_by": null, "body": "Same, I'm always rolling my eyes whenever people suggest divorce on these subs but in this case, what OP has said about her husband's comments and actions makes me think he doesn't actually care about OP or respects her as much.\n\nI will be cautious about this relationship tbh", "body_html": "<div class=\"md\"><p>Same, I'm always rolling my eyes whenever people suggest divorce on these subs but in this case, what OP has said about her husband's comments and actions makes me think he doesn't actually care about OP or respects her as much.</p>\n\n<p>I will be cautious about this relationship tbh</p>\n</div>", "can_gild": false, "can_mod_post": false, "collapsed": false, "collapsed_because_crowd_control": null, "collapsed_reason": null, "collapsed_reason_code": null, "comment_type": null, "controversiality": 0, "created": 1672612763.0, "created_utc": 1672612763.0, "depth": 4, "distinguished": null, "downs": 0, "editable": null, "edited": 0.0, "gilded": 0, "gildings": null, "id": "j2k2wdm", "is_submitter": false, "likes": null, "link_id": "t3_100ogg4", "locked": false, "mod_note": null, "mod_reason_by": null, "mod_reason_title": null, "mod_reports": [], "name": "t1_j2k2wdm", "no_follow": false, "num_reports": null, "parent_id": "t1_j2jiyel", "permalink": "/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/100ogg4/aita_for_silently_getting_up_and_walking_out_of/j2k2wdm/", "removal_reason": null, "replies": [], "report_reasons": null, "saved": false, "score": 10, "score_hidden": false, "send_replies": true, "stickied": false, "subreddit": "AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_id": "t5_2xhvq", "subreddit_name_prefixed": "r/AmItheAsshole", "subreddit_type": "public", "top_awarded_type": null, "total_awards_received": 0, "treatment_tags": [], "unrepliable_reason": null, "ups": 10, "user_reports": [], "comment_metrics": {"stance": "strong_disagree"}, "post_metrics": {"stance_distribution": {"agree": 0.07, "strong_agree": 0.872, "off_topic": 0.006, "neutral": 0.035, "lean_agree": 0.017}}} | [
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